Back in the day when I was a new homeschooler I spent quite a bit of time searching for other homeschoolers I could relate to or who might relate to me. Oddly enough, I've never found a local homeschooling group either because of where we live or because I just cannot stomach a meeting filled with prayer requests, political goings on, or anything having to do with subjects other than homeschooling. Yes, I'm a friendly person, and I pride myself on being able to get along well with others when necessary. However, by the time I came to homeschooling I had spent enough years "dealing" with people I didn't particularly enjoy.
I looked to the internet to find a group of parents I could relate to, and I looked, and I looked. Finally I found a "smart, sassy" group of folks who labeled themselves as secular. (I'm not going to even bother to go into the definition of what a secular homeschooler is. If you don't know, then please Google it.) I found a wealth of information there as well as a group of truly inclusive parents that were open to sharing what homeschooling was like for each of them.
Unfortunately that online community went through some changes that left it less than it once was. There was one particular woman in that community that gave excellent, calming (and believe me as a new homeschooler calm was something I badly needed), smart, real advice with love and kindness. From the time I started blogging, I often wished I could link to this amazing woman so that other homeschoolers could benefit from her wisdom - and I kid you not, this woman is wise.
Recently, Val started blogging, and her blog is filled with stories and experiences told in her incredibly soothing voice. There are a handful of homeschoolers that have influenced what we do here in our homeschool, and Val is among the most valuable to me. I've often said I'd like to just sit at her feet and learn - she's that amazing. Pop over and meet her at
well, yeah...and I'm sure you'll see what I mean.